Should I have kids?

 We live in a society that assumes that having children is a given, the automatic next step.  People who decide not to have children often experience criticism and can be labeled as selfish or immature.  I'll tip my hand - I don't have strong opinions about whether or not you have children, but I do have a belief that most people are better off if they make decisions about children consciously and intentionally.  

As you explore your options, I will be your sounding board, and you can change your mind as many times as you need to.  You may have never wanted children, but now are starting to question your choice as you get a little older.  Or perhaps you are trying to find the courage to decide to be the fabulous auntie or uncle while remaining childfree.  All of those decisions are valid.  Let's figure out what makes sense for you.